Friday, November 14, 2008

A Shoutout to A Better Asian Man who has helped me immensly this past year

All my life I thought nobody understood me and my problem with not just women but people in general. All my life I thought I would never understand how socially society works. All my life I suffered from very low self image, low self esteem, lack of self confidence, loneliness and the "nice guy" syndrome. Every year seemed to be the same except for this year.

This year was FUCKING MARVELOUS. This year i had the support of the brotherhood. This year one of my coolest buddies William taught me so much about not just how to succeed with women in general but in life as well. He has taught me many ways to reframe my thoughts and shown me his philosophies of going about dating and life.

The one most fascinating and powerful philosophies that he has taught me were to be honest. Honesty I learned is all that is needed because if you are honest with yourself, you are able to show people the meaning and definition of who you are. By being honest with yourself you are demonstrating all that you believe; you’re intentions, your preferences, and most importantly your personality. If they still don't find you attractive, it is never your fault. It is not their fault as well. You have put your best foot forward by being a man, giving all you got and being totally honest. There is nothing much you can do and at the same time there is nothing loss.

It is now the middle of November and I still believe this year has been a cornerstone in my life when it comes to social pursuits and happiness. I've reached a new high because of William and the brotherhood. I am still unable to accept my true identity and be truly confident in whom I am but I do understand that it takes time. I will keep pushing myself and knowing such an extraordinary dude like William I know I will go along way quick...

He is an excellent mentor. In many ways he is like a big brother to me, teaching me stuff that my parents considered bad or shameful and actually showing me that there is nothing to be ashamed about. He is indeed truly a Better Asian Man.


Check out his blog at www.BetterAsianMan.com

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