Thursday, August 28, 2008

Insecurities and Limiting Beliefs

This is a list of the insecurities and limiting beliefs that I use to have or that I still have. (Trying gradually to put them to rest)

Insecurities and Limiting Beliefs
1) I am not good looking
2) I am very fidgety and nervous all the time
3) I am not attractive to women
4) I cannot make friends with anyone
5) I am a loser therefore I can never be popular
6) I have no social skills
7) I am so short
8) I am not an interesting person
9) I have no "cool" hobbies therefore I am a lame person
10) I am insecure about my high pitch squeaky voice which cracks often
11) I always look stoned and depressed
12) I am way to skinny
13) I have a small "typical" Asian penis
14) I am Asian, therefore I should act appropriately and allow other people to stomp all over me while i stay quiet and do nothing, because I believe in Karma.
15) Hot girls are godly compared to me and they are way beyond my status
16) I am the only Asian who is not good at math or science
17) I am the only Asian with average or below average grades
18) I am insecure about my Asian "features"
19) I should not approach because I am not worth their time
20) I cannot date girls who are "out of my league"
21) Hot girls have way more value than me
22) I have an emotionless face (Asian poker face) and there is no way I can get rid of it
23) I have poor stature/body language and there is no way that I can fix this
24) Girls who are of other race are way too hard to handle for me because they are beyond my level
25) I am a boring person therefore if I see someone who I accidentally meet, I need to impress them by acting cool so I don't lose them.
26) I do not deserve a fantastic life style because i am Asian and i don't look like Brad Pitt.
27) I will never get laid, if I do get laid I will probably be 50 years old and it will probably happen to me as an accident
28) I should be lucky enough just to be stuck in the friend zone
29) I cannot show sexuality because I do not know how and I will never learn how to.
30) If a semi attractive average girl is in my life, I should hold on to her and never let her go, so that we can make love, get married and have kids.

31) I am weaker then every other men because i am Asian or because i was born like that.

32) I have no business hanging out with cool people or in cool venues, I am just not worth it


As you can see I had and have tons of excuses, limiting beliefs, insecurities or whatever it is that you call them. Basically I had deep inner game issues. I still do, and I hope to push them out of the way. These are only a few of my beliefs I have a lot more. These are the ones that come to mind the most everyday throughout the day, especially during my sleepless nights.




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