Since getting in the game i have been making the same mistakes and letting the same limiting beliefs take over me. Here is a list of these problematic flaws that stick out like a unwanted weed in my game. This is also a list of actions i can take to make me better at my social skills. I believe that all of these are stopping me from becoming a Better Asian Man.
1) GET OUT OF YOUR FUCKING HEAD!!!!!!! (Credit ManCannon)
2) STOP THINKING AND JUST GO FOR IT!! TAKE SOME RISKS ALREADY!!!
3) Do not hesitate on the approach
4) stop trying to think of the perfect opener and go in.
5) stop touching your face when you talk
6) stop pecking
7) Post up more Field Reports and get more criticism.
8) Say hi to at least 5 different people a day
9) Stand straight but not like a soldier, just remember not to slouch
10) Stop putting so much value on hot girls
11) Approach even when you are busy with something (eating a slice of pizza)
12) Stop being so self-conscious of yourself
13) Be in the moment
14) Use the vacuum more often
15) Use the boomerang tactic
16) Start changing the way I dress
17) Go out to sarge at least 2-3 times a week
18) Speak louder and with confidence
19) commit to every action/decision that you make or take.
20) always be escalating physically
21) Stop thinking of what to say next and just LISTEN
22) approach even if they are on the phone or listening to their ipods etc...
23) Start approaching sets rather than lone wolves
24) get your DHV stories down and tell them with enthusiasm
25) Always be honest and leave the person that you interacted with feeling great
26) Do not catch oneitis
27) Learn to have fun and smile in parties rather than just gaming all the time
28) Warm up before going in
29) be more cocky and funny
30) Try to isolate better and create a better comfort game
31) Approach at least 1 girl or go direct with 1 girl everyday
Thursday, August 28, 2008
KEY sticking points to GAME
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